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Was It Worth The Wait?

  • Posted 6 years ago
Was It Worth The Wait?

Who really cared what the Minister had to say when something was waiting to be opened. After all we could watch the proceedings later. I just could not wait to practice and have a feel of all that I had heard and seen in the books and from friends. I could not wait to have sex.

Fast forward, we were alone and I was waiting to have the best night of my life, only to have an “under 1 minute” without a climax. That was my first time so I had no standard to compare, but that certainly was not a nice one.

Imagine having to wait for almost 30 years for this terrible sex! As a young lady growing up, hearing my pastor and mother preach about the need to remain chaste and desist from sexual immortality, I must admit my spirit was quite dampened as that meant no chance to explore and have a feel of what Esi and Gifty were experiencing.

I was one curious and inquisitive young lady who wouldn’t spare any novel especially if it had amorous content. Halequin was my favorite, not because I was a bad girl, but I just was curious about this thing called sex. If I did not have the chance to enjoy it now, I might as well take the chance and prepare adequately for it by engaging every book and video I found on it.

Only to be disappointed by my partner on our first night together.

As a typical African mother would behave, my mother was very happy I had been able to keep those legs together. My in laws were content, what perfect gift could a bride give to the groom than the honour of cutting the cord to the temple. What a disappointing and unceremonious way to cut a cord!

I was frustrated and angry. Was I going to stay with this for the rest of my life?

I thought good things came to those who waited.

I remembered my friends saying they had to try to know how it felt like, to enjoy before one was imprisoned.

Had I made a mistake? I started thinking to myself …so was it really worth the wait…

For the first time in my life, I started regretting keeping those legs together..

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